Obituary: Gaye Dyson
I just heard tonight that Gaye Dyson died recently of breast cancer and that her funeral took place near Wellington in the last couple of days. I don't know any more details yet but I feel moved to pay tribute to my friend and sister-in-activism.
I first heard of Gaye Dyson through articles in the Sekhmet anarcha-feminist zine about the awesome performance group the Southern Hags of which I understand she was a founding member. When I started to get to know her in person in 1997 she was running Planet Gaia - the Otautahi (ChCh) section of the PlaNet network of non-profit Internet Service Providers - out of the CORSO national office's building. She was one of the few female geeks (in the sense of being a skilled computer engineer) I've ever known and put a lot of effort into encouraging other women in this area and organising workshops to pass on these skills.
After Frank, Matthew, Beth and I hatched a plan for an Otautahi affinity group at the 1997 Anarchist Conference in Wellington Gaye was very supportive and helped us create the first incarnation of the Anarchist Round Table (ART). We worked in ad-hoc groups with her on demonstations against McVomits, Vivisection, the America's Cup and Work For the Dole amonst others and street theatre highlighting the Indonesian government's murderous occupation of East Timor and the starving child victims of 'free trade globalization' on Buy Nothing Day.
Gaye also worked with the Out of Order group on campus at Canterbury University who were involved in student marches and registry occupations, amongst other things and used to do Food Not Bombs in Latimer Square every week for months until the beautiful old houses they were living in were demolished to make way for tilt-slab 'townhouse' monstrosities. The campaign to save the second of these buildings and Bob's Yr Uncle - the recycling art business adjoining it - united Gaye and her group with heritage campaigners from Te Whare Roimata - the local Community Cottage - and our ART/ SMOG Community Newspaper collectives in a staunch occupation that mirrored in a very short timescale the much more protracted battle over the Te Aro Bypass in Wellington.
Gaye was a passionate and tireless campaigner who never gave up when she perceived an injustice and once engaged in an issue would pursue it relentlessly to its conclusion. I clearly remember her in the Planet Gaia office making a timeline of all the important demo dates for the following year. Planet Gaia and her activist organising were both fulltime jobs yet somehow she always had the energy to organise ad-hoc demos in reaction to unexpected issues and to participate in the local music scene, organising gigs with the Hags and benefit shows with women from Out Of Order for various activist causes. No doubt others who knew her before me or since we both left Otautahi (ChCh) could add much more to her list of voluntary activities.
After winding up Planet Gaia Gaye moved to Levin and worked for the Greens for the last few years.
The last time I talked to her was at a GE Conference in Auckland and she seemed fine, perhaps a little jaded but I attributed that to the exhausting task of facilitating the large and very diverse crowd that attended the conference.
She was an inspiring and supportive activist to work with and a fun, good-humoured person to hang out with. She will leave a hug gap in the fabric of Aotearoa activism and in the lives of those who knew and respected her dedication and organising energy.
Only the good die young.
Rest in peace Gaye, you've more than earned it.



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Re: Obituary: Gaye Dyson
thanks for this strypey..
i've kind of been at a loss to know how to express my surprise when i heard that gaye was dying a week or so ago..
even though i didn't know her very well, she was definately one of the stronger personalities i have met through activism in aotearoa. her passing will, as you say, definately leave a gap.
thanks gaye..
rosie
Re: Obituary: Gaye Dyson
Further information:
Gaye was very active in Campaign for a Better City's (Wellington anti-bypass group) early days and had a huge influence on the culture of our group as a participatory, informal, encouraging and open umbrella group. She also designed the Transit tenants T-shirt. Last week I sent one up and she was delighted to see it. Until 1995 Gaye lived upstairs at 23 Kensington St, which at that time was a very active anarchist flat.
More recently she lived in Christchurch and Palmerston North where she and others took the Council to the Environment Court over its plans for sewerage treatment. She was Green MP Metiria Turei Executive Assistant for the last 18 months until she resigned for health reasons a couple of months ago.
Gaye's funeral was held at 11am Thursday 16 September at the Salvation Army Hall, in Durham St, Levin.
Does anyone know when she died and where?
Re: Obituary: Gaye Dyson
Further information:
Gaye was very active in Campaign for a Better City's (Wellington anti-bypass group) early days and had a huge influence on the culture of our group as a participatory, informal, encouraging and open umbrella group. She also designed the Transit tenants T-shirt. Last week I sent one up and she was delighted to see it. Until 1995 Gaye lived upstairs at 23 Kensington St, which at that time was a very active anarchist flat.
More recently she lived in Christchurch and Palmerston North where she and others took the Council to the Environment Court over its plans for sewerage treatment. She was Green MP Metiria Turei Executive Assistant for the last 18 months until she resigned for health reasons a couple of months ago.
Gaye's funeral was held at 11am Thursday 16 September at the Salvation Army Hall, in Durham St, Levin.
Does anyone know when she died and where?
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Gaye spent her last few weeks in a hospice in Palmerston North.
Im sad to say that the end wasnt very quick.
I attended the funeral which was very fitting to her, except no-one had thought about her veagn mates who attended... there was no vegan food.
Gaye would have been PISSED.
Re: Obituary: Gaye Dyson
My main memories of Gaye was behind the loud hailer at ANZCCART 1999, or trying to help the tent city occupiers at the lifting of the mortoriam without getting herself in trouble (she was working for parliment at the time). Gaye is sorley missed, she had so much more to offer. My last memory of Gaye was her in the freedom shop fixing things up and us having a bitch about the bypass..
Somebody at the service mentioned that she had no children, but they were wrong. During Animal Rights operations her code name was "Mum", she was making sure there was food or organizing people to get some and soy milk always. She was a tough Matriarchal leader in the AR movement and the vivisectors should be sighing in relif from her passing... But shes left us a legeacy in her show of leadership, spirit and practically in her thesis on philosphy.
For those of you that couldn't make it to Levin on Thursday heres some details from her service...
Gaye Dyson (Master of Philosophy)
5th September 1961 - 13 September 2004
"Woman of Peace, Stroppy not soppy"
Service to Celebrate the life of Gaye
Entrance Music "Lend me your wings" By Tenzin
Wally Dyson, Jonathan Boyes, Metiria Turei and others spoke tributes. "the Flying Fishwives" (of which Gaye was a founding memeber) sang a tribute.
"what is the purpose of one's own life?
Helping others no matter, how small,
that is the purpose of one's own survival,
Certainly our life, our existence on this planet
is not for creating pains for others
If you can help others do it.
If you can't, at least restrain from harming one another,
Thats my fundamental belif, as a Buddist
or even as a non-buddist or a non-believer.
I think if you remain a warm hearted person
with a purposeful life, then your life
becomes something more meaningful.
His Holiness
The Dalal Lama
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Here is a poem I offer in tribute to Gaye, I feel it captures the spirit of her life mission.
Before I start this poem,
I'd like to ask you to join me
in a moment of silence
in honour of those who died
in the World Trade Centre
and the Pentagon
last September 11th.
I would also like to ask you
a moment of silence
for all of those who have been
harassed, imprisoned, disappeared,
tortured, raped, or killed
in retaliation for those strikes,
for the victims in both
Afghanistan and the U.S.
And if I could just add one more thing...
A full day of silence
for the tens of thousands of Palestinians
who have died at the hands of
U.S.-backed Israeli forces
over decades of occupation.
Six months of silence
for the million and-a-half Iraqi people,
mostly children, who have died of
malnourishment or starvation
as a result of an 11-year U.S. embargo
against the country.
Before I begin this poem:
two months of silence
for the Blacks under Apartheid
in South Africa,
where homeland security
made them aliens
in their own country.
Nine months of silence
for the dead in Hiroshima
and Nagasaki, where death rained
down and peeled back
every layer of concrete, steel, earth and skin
and the survivors went on as if alive.
A year of silence
for the millions of dead
in Vietnam--a people, not a war-
for those who know a thing or two
about the scent of burning fuel,
their relatives' bones buried in it,
their babies born of it.
A year of silence
for the dead in Cambodia and Laos,
victims of a secret war ... ssssshhhhh ....
Say nothing ... we don't want them to learn
that they are dead.
Two months of silence
for the decades of dead
in Colombia, whose names,
like the corpses they once represented,
have piled up and slipped off
our tongues.
Before I begin this poem,
An hour of silence for El Salvador ...
An afternoon of silence
for Nicaragua ...
Two days of silence
for the Guetmaltecos ...
None of whom ever knew
a moment of peace
45 seconds of silence
for the 45 dead
at Acteal, Chiapas
25 years of silence
for the hundred million Africans
who found their graves
far deeper in the ocean
than any building could
poke into the sky.
There will be no DNA testing
or dental records
to identify their remains.
And for those who were
strung and swung
from the heights of
sycamore trees
in the south, the north,
the east, and the west...
100 years of silence...
For the hundreds of millions of
indigenous peoples
from this half of right here,
Whose land and lives were stolen,
In postcard-perfect plots
like Pine Ridge,
Wounded Knee,
Sand Creek, Fallen Timbers,
or the Trail of Tears.
Names now reduced
to innocuous magnetic poetry
on the refrigerator
of our consciousness ...
So you want a moment of silence?
And we are all left speechless
Our tongues snatched from our mouths
Our eyes stapled shut
A moment of silence
And the poets have all been laid to rest
The drums disintegrating into dust
Before I begin this poem,
You want a moment of silence
You mourn now as if the world will never be the
same
And the rest of us hope to hell it won't be.
Not like it always has been
Because this is not a 9-1-1 poem
This is a 9/10 poem,
It is a 9/9 poem,
A 9/8 poem,
A 9/7 poem
This is a 1492 poem.
This is a poem about
what causes poems like this
to be written
And if this is a 9/11 poem, then
This is a September 11th poem
for Chile, 1971
This is a September 12th poem
for Steven Biko in South Africa, 1977
This is a September 13th poem
for the brothers at Attica Prison,
New Yor k, 1971.
This is a September 14th poem
for Somalia, 1992.
This is a poem
for every date that falls
to the ground in ashes
This is a poem for the 110 stories
that were never told
The 110 stories that history
chose not to write in textbooks
The 110 stories that CNN, BBC,
The New York Times,
and Newsweek ignored
This is a poem
for interrupting this program.
And still you want
a moment of silence
for your dead?
We could give you
lifetimes of empty:
The unmarked graves
The lost languages
The uprooted trees and histories
The dead stares on the faces
of nameless children
Before I start this poem
We could be silent forever
Or just long enough to hunger,
For the dust to bury us
And you would still ask us
For more of our silence.
If you want a moment of silence
Then stop the oil pumps
Turn off the engines and the televisions
Sink the cruise ships
Crash the stock markets
Unplug the marquee lights,
Delete the instant messages,
Derail the trains, the light rail transit
If you want a moment of silence,
put a brick through
the window of Taco Bell,
And pay the workers for wages lost
Tear down the liquor stores,
The townhouses, the White Houses,
the jailhouses, the Penthouses and
the Playboys.
If you want a moment of silence,
Then take it
On Super Bowl Sunday,
The Fourth of July
During Dayton's 13 hour sale
Or the next time your white guilt
fills the room where my beautiful
people have gathered
You want a moment of silence
Then take it
& nbsp; Now,
Before this poem begins.
Here, in the echo of my voice,
In the pause between goosesteps of the second
hand
In the space
between bodies in embrace,
Here is your silence.
Take it.
But take it all
Don't cut in line.
Let your silence begin
at the beginning of crime But we,
Tonight we will keep right on singing
For our dead.
Emmanuel Ortiz of americas.org
Re: Obituary: Gaye Dyson
Kia ora katoa
It is with great sadness and shock that I read of Gay's Death. So young and so commited to the causes of many low income people from all around the globe.
I was involved with Gay in Otautahi at Corso where the groups I was involved were allowed to work from . The beneficary action collective and the smog newspaper ran for about 3 years and diring that time Gay was always in the background with advice, support and an understanding ear.I think she always wished she could do more but time was her enemy. There were times when we clashed about how things should happen but it was ok because we always knew we were on the same side of the fence.
I think her shadow will linger for a long time over left politics in Otautahi.
Ngaa mihi mahana ki te whanau A Gay. She was known by us, she worked with us, she shared with us but in the end you knew her like we did not. Your hurt and suffering is felt and shared by many more than could attend her funeral. Long may her work continue trough her many supporter and friends.Aroha ki a taatou katoa. Love is something that keeps us warm so live in the love of all.
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Just read Ants post... Yeah, "Mum"
I think I came up with that at ANZCCART 99. First time radios were used effectively on a demo. Gaye was callsign "MUM"... and it stuck. I have a photo of "MUM" standing outside the back gates of Te Papa looking around.
I enjoyed her company... She didnt have much to do with activism in the last few years, but Ill never forget her.
She was the person who first got me involved in AR and basically in activism in general.
Anyway, see you in a few years Gaye... If we end up in the same place that is.
Rob
X
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don't you all think I know this very pain on a grand scale? worse yet know why and feel responsible for not doing more sooner.
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i only really knew gaye in the last few years and she was definitly still active. especially in the sometimes slightly disfunctional ge free wellington goings on and of course ge things nationally as well - shes was such a solid rock!- even when tired and wet and pissed off. it was pretty obviously hard for her to juggle rampant activist ideals with her responsibilities to the greens at times too. ha ha.
she was also really involved in anti rascim / indigenous rights issues and was a really important mentor type person for a group of people focusing on this area.
im not going to go anymore into her many goings on which i could.
i admit i cried in a far off place, over the email i received to say she had died. i was sad not to be able to attend the funeral. well actually i was sadder not to have seen her. i dont know how i feel about this internet goodbye thing but i know the sentiment is heartfelt and i wanted to add some info to the last post.
thanks so much gaye.
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Sad to hear about this loss. I have a bunch of old copies of Smog which I picked up on a trip to Chch a couple of years ago - it seems to me to be a great example of a left-wing community newspaper which is accessible without being light on the politics. I've shown it to different friends in Auckland at various times and they've always something to enthuse about.
Breast cancer is a plague in our society - I never thought much about it until my mother was diagnosed earlier this year, but in the course of helping her through the treatment (which fortunately turned out well) I was amazed by how widespread the disease is, and how underfunded treatment is. If men suffered it in the same numbers it'd be a different story! My sympathies to all the people who knew Gaye.
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My reflections and some links to some of Gaye's stuff can be found here.
Re: Obituary: Gaye Dyson
I first met Gaye on the way to the first national East Timor Action groups get-togheter. What a bundle of energy!
Bumped into her numerous times after that. both on East Timor work, and latterly at the most recent Sweetwaters where we both had stalls in the 'eco' area, and finally at the GE hui in Akl only last year.
I had no idea until visiting here that she had died or was even sick, and its sad to hear it out of the blue.
Good on ya Gaye for your work and inspiration.
...stu
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Sorry to hear about the loss of such a great person.
Re: Obituary: Gaye Dyson
Gaye passed away peacefully on Monday night before her her funeral at the Arohanui Hospice in Palmerston North
At the end she was in the Hopice in Palmerston North and visiting was restricted to family only, She was there for just under 2 weeks and most of that time on morphine - so she was pretty sick and ready to go in the last few days.
The last time I saw her was the day before she went to hospice at Waiterere Beach and she was looking pretty sick- short of breath and weary and tired.
I will miss her heaps and feel really upset that she died with some much work finished but never really got the chance just to sit back and rest for herself-- Its been a real wake up call for me- a reminder to look after oneself as in the harsh world of activism the 'world' always needs to be saved and there's always one more 'campaign' but its never gonna be sustainable if we succeed in killing ourselves!!!
Her funeral was really lovely- her father gave a very nice ulogy and it was a nice time to remember he by- I hope to organise a memorial dinner for her in a month or twos time here in Wellington- a chance for mainly anarchafem women friends to meet up and go out for a cheap eat- the struggle continues and we will fight on:
On the night of her funeral some of us got together in Wellington and wrote up an incomplete list of the 'causes' and 'projects' she worked on
here goes==
Screen printing collective- Wellington circa 1992-1995
Flying Fishwives- Palmerston North/ Waiterere
Sekhmet- Wellington/ Christchurch circa 1991-1996?
Southern Hags
Katipo Collective- wellington Anarchafems
Womens Health Collective Palmerston North
Learning Centre- Palmerston North
Womens Refuge- Palmerston North
Peoples Centre- Auckland
Animal Rights (Christchruch)
Ministry of Truth Trust, Christchurch
Molten Media Christchurch
Anti Bases Campaign(s)
Black Power Wellington
GE Camp - Wellington 2003
Free Tibet movement (at least 10 years involvement)
Wellington Unemployed Workers Union
NZAVS
Overview - CORSO publication
Antibypass campaign- Campaign for a Better City
CORSO Wellington
CORSO Christchurch
CORSO Waiterere Beach
Food Not Bombs Christchurch
Homeless movement Christchurch
Women Reclaim the Night March circa 1994 Wellington
Manawatu River Campaign
Horowhenua Lake Campaign
Organic River Festival Levin
Green Party Candidate
Green Party anti GE generally
Green Party member
Free East Timor movement
Parliamentary Activist Team
Bourganville Freedom and Independance movement
Tino Rangatiratanga and Decolonisation activism
Womens rights Canterbury Universtiy
University Canterbury University
University Palmerston North - completed her Masters of Philosophy in Development Studies- was capped in the Hospice
I WILL MISS HER- ALWAYS IN MY HEART
KEEP FUCKIN FIGHTING THE SHITSDOM & LETS BRING THE PATRIARCHY DOWN FOR HER !! as Gaye would say 'we can't let the bastards win'
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